UGHHHHH! I need some relief
I'm going thru so much bullshit over here. i jus need some relief from this madness idk wat 2 do. i cant smoke bud n i cant drink but i jus feel like i need some relief from all this stress n problems. if the stress n problems keep building up ill become so overwhelmed tht my body will become physically tired n ill sleep alot n thts the last thing i wana do. i would do a ritual but i jus get this feeling it wont help or work none bcuz im so messed up right now. help :(
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Permalink Reply by Bad Seed on -
Sleep might actually be just what you need. Being well-rested makes it easier to cope with stress. Meditation would be a good idea as well.
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Permalink Reply by Luna Firestorm on -
the thing is i tend 2 sleep 2 much wen im stressed n i dont want tht 2 become a bad habit again. ill try 2 meditate but its hard considering all the things i would have 2 push 2 the side 2 focus n relax
Bad Seed said:Sleep might actually be just what you need. Being well-rested makes it easier to cope with stress. Meditation would be a good idea as well.
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Permalink Reply by Sargo on -
No offense intended here, but I have never understood the whole, smoke bud or drink as a form of release. That makes no sense at all to me. I have done both in the past and all I got out of it were empty pockets an a day or two of wasted time, energy, and the problems still there. So obviously those did noting for a 'release' for me.
I just prefer a permanent solution to issues, rather than a temporary escape. But you do need to figure out what it is that is the root of the problem. Once you determine what the stress causer is... get rid of it.
If someone causes drama in my life that is unwanted, and it is a continuous thing, I tell them to take the drama elsewhere or I will end the relationship with them. It may seem harsh, but there are a lot of toxic people in the world, and I dont need that sort of attention, nor do I want it.
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Permalink Reply by Luna Firestorm on
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its problems tht i have no control over shit jus happens. but still
Sargo said:No offense intended here, but I have never understood the whole, smoke bud or drink as a form of release. That makes no sense at all to me. I have done both in the past and all I got out of it were empty pockets an a day or two of wasted time, energy, and the problems still there. So obviously those did noting for a 'release' for me.
I just prefer a permanent solution to issues, rather than a temporary escape. But you do need to figure out what it is that is the root of the problem. Once you determine what the stress causer is... get rid of it.
If someone causes drama in my life that is unwanted, and it is a continuous thing, I tell them to take the drama elsewhere or I will end the relationship with them. It may seem harsh, but there are a lot of toxic people in the world, and I dont need that sort of attention, nor do I want it.
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Permalink Reply by BelleMorte on -
What you need evidently is a couple of things pointed out to you, so let me help you out a bit.
As a mod I will point out two things:
1) We don't use profanity in our forum posts.
2) We don't discuss drug use and in your case alcohol consumption seeing as you are still a few years shy of the legal age limit.
As a person I will point out a few more:
1) This would be better suited as a blog post instead of a forum discussion
2) The constant use of text speak is both annoysome as it is tiresome. I am sure you went to school at some point, it really wouldn't hurt to apply some of what you learned. When wanting help from others it helps to come across as at least semi intelligent to begin with.
3) You are 18, it's time to start learning how to grow up and put your big girl panties on. Translation being, you are becoming an adult, life gets harder as time goes on, not easier. You are going to have to learn to take the punches as the come, we have all been there and made it to the other side. Turning to alcohol and drugs is not the answer, if you can't handle things now I truly feel sorry for you in the next few years when you become completely independent and are forced to handle things all on your own.
4) If you are stressed, take a step back from the so called bs around you, take a deep breathe and calm down. Take a walk, take a nap, read a book....take some you time. Step away from the situation then come back to it, things will seem much less dramatic than it seems at this moment.
Good luck with life.
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Permalink Reply by Enroljas on -
Need...like...button. >_br/>
Synister Witch said:What you need evidently is a couple of things pointed out to you, so let me help you out a bit.
As a mod I will point out two things:
1) We don't use profanity in our forum posts.
2) We don't discuss drug use and in your case alcohol consumption seeing as you are still a few years shy of the legal age limit.
As a person I will point out a few more:
1) This would be better suited as a blog post instead of a forum discussion
2) The constant use of text speak is both annoysome as it is tiresome. I am sure you went to school at some point, it really wouldn't hurt to apply some of what you learned. When wanting help from others it helps to come across as at least semi intelligent to begin with.
3) You are 18, it's time to start learning how to grow up and put your big girl panties on. Translation being, you are becoming an adult, life gets harder as time goes on, not easier. You are going to have to learn to take the punches as the come, we have all been there and made it to the other side. Turning to alcohol and drugs is not the answer, if you can't handle things now I truly feel sorry for you in the next few years when you become completely independent and are forced to handle things all on your own.
4) If you are stressed, take a step back from the so called bs around you, take a deep breathe and calm down. Take a walk, take a nap, read a book....take some you time. Step away from the situation then come back to it, things will seem much less dramatic than it seems at this moment.
Good luck with life.
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Permalink Reply by Moody Thursday on -
I'll have to agree with the reply below, but since I feel that just agreeing would be mean, let me give you some input.
I'm not sure what you're going through, but I can tell you that smoking or drinking never solved any problems. You think it will make you forget, until you find yourself with heightened emotions and lower inhibitions: and there comes the water works. You'll be crying and feeling worse before you know it! Problem solved? Nope, just made you feel worse.
Secondly, I know problems can make you tired: sleep if you can. Then make yourself wake up, take a shower, drink some coffee, and face the world. Inaction is the worst thing you can do. So take a stand and try to fix what's ailing you. We all have to do it, and it's unpleasant to all of us, but life goes on. Good luck, I hope you find whatever it is you're looking for. I'm sure you can beat whatever is bothering you :-)
Synister Witch said:What you need evidently is a couple of things pointed out to you, so let me help you out a bit.
As a mod I will point out two things:
1) We don't use profanity in our forum posts.
2) We don't discuss drug use and in your case alcohol consumption seeing as you are still a few years shy of the legal age limit.
As a person I will point out a few more:
1) This would be better suited as a blog post instead of a forum discussion
2) The constant use of text speak is both annoysome as it is tiresome. I am sure you went to school at some point, it really wouldn't hurt to apply some of what you learned. When wanting help from others it helps to come across as at least semi intelligent to begin with.
3) You are 18, it's time to start learning how to grow up and put your big girl panties on. Translation being, you are becoming an adult, life gets harder as time goes on, not easier. You are going to have to learn to take the punches as the come, we have all been there and made it to the other side. Turning to alcohol and drugs is not the answer, if you can't handle things now I truly feel sorry for you in the next few years when you become completely independent and are forced to handle things all on your own.
4) If you are stressed, take a step back from the so called bs around you, take a deep breathe and calm down. Take a walk, take a nap, read a book....take some you time. Step away from the situation then come back to it, things will seem much less dramatic than it seems at this moment.
Good luck with life.
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Permalink Reply by Luna Firestorm on
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i guess thx 4 the comment. 1st of all sry 4 posting profanity but thts my way of venting. 2nd i tried posting this as my blog but idk wat happened. 3rd i am an intelligent person n i do no how 2 spell correctly i dont needa go back 2 school. n i didnt think me typing this way was a problem considering im not writing a letter im on a computer. u have no idea wat im going thru but thank u 4 making me feel insulted cuz now i feel more like s***
Synister Witch said:What you need evidently is a couple of things pointed out to you, so let me help you out a bit.
As a mod I will point out two things:
1) We don't use profanity in our forum posts.
2) We don't discuss drug use and in your case alcohol consumption seeing as you are still a few years shy of the legal age limit.
As a person I will point out a few more:
1) This would be better suited as a blog post instead of a forum discussion
2) The constant use of text speak is both annoysome as it is tiresome. I am sure you went to school at some point, it really wouldn't hurt to apply some of what you learned. When wanting help from others it helps to come across as at least semi intelligent to begin with.
3) You are 18, it's time to start learning how to grow up and put your big girl panties on. Translation being, you are becoming an adult, life gets harder as time goes on, not easier. You are going to have to learn to take the punches as the come, we have all been there and made it to the other side. Turning to alcohol and drugs is not the answer, if you can't handle things now I truly feel sorry for you in the next few years when you become completely independent and are forced to handle things all on your own.
4) If you are stressed, take a step back from the so called bs around you, take a deep breathe and calm down. Take a walk, take a nap, read a book....take some you time. Step away from the situation then come back to it, things will seem much less dramatic than it seems at this moment.
Good luck with life.
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Permalink Reply by Luna Firestorm on
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thanks 4 ur comment. n i do understand were ur coming from but as a ex-pothead tht was the one way thing tht made me happy wen i felt i needed some relief from life n laughs in life. sure its not the best way of handling things but tht was how i dealt wit *stuff* n my mind from time 2 time does wana smoke again but ive been going 4 months strong without it n ima keep it tht way
Moody Thursday said:I'll have to agree with the reply below, but since I feel that just agreeing would be mean, let me give you some input.
I'm not sure what you're going through, but I can tell you that smoking or drinking never solved any problems. You think it will make you forget, until you find yourself with heightened emotions and lower inhibitions: and there comes the water works. You'll be crying and feeling worse before you know it! Problem solved? Nope, just made you feel worse.
Secondly, I know problems can make you tired: sleep if you can. Then make yourself wake up, take a shower, drink some coffee, and face the world. Inaction is the worst thing you can do. So take a stand and try to fix what's ailing you. We all have to do it, and it's unpleasant to all of us, but life goes on. Good luck, I hope you find whatever it is you're looking for. I'm sure you can beat whatever is bothering you :-)
Synister Witch said:What you need evidently is a couple of things pointed out to you, so let me help you out a bit.
As a mod I will point out two things:
1) We don't use profanity in our forum posts.
2) We don't discuss drug use and in your case alcohol consumption seeing as you are still a few years shy of the legal age limit.
As a person I will point out a few more:
1) This would be better suited as a blog post instead of a forum discussion
2) The constant use of text speak is both annoysome as it is tiresome. I am sure you went to school at some point, it really wouldn't hurt to apply some of what you learned. When wanting help from others it helps to come across as at least semi intelligent to begin with.
3) You are 18, it's time to start learning how to grow up and put your big girl panties on. Translation being, you are becoming an adult, life gets harder as time goes on, not easier. You are going to have to learn to take the punches as the come, we have all been there and made it to the other side. Turning to alcohol and drugs is not the answer, if you can't handle things now I truly feel sorry for you in the next few years when you become completely independent and are forced to handle things all on your own.
4) If you are stressed, take a step back from the so called bs around you, take a deep breathe and calm down. Take a walk, take a nap, read a book....take some you time. Step away from the situation then come back to it, things will seem much less dramatic than it seems at this moment.
Good luck with life.
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Permalink Reply by BelleMorte on
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Venting is fine but it needs to be within the rules of site and as for your typing...I never said you needed to go back to school, I said you should utilize the schooling you already have received. It's not about writing a letter it's about making things legible and articulate enough that people can actually read and make sense of what is being posted. Many members will simply overlook posts if it takes 20 minutes just to decipher the first two sentences. You are right, I don't know what you have gone through, but I do know what we all go through and at the end of the day it's called Life. You really have no other choice but to suck it up and deal with it hun. Which is why I said that if you are that stressed out, take a break, take a breather then come back and attack the problem with a clear head.
Luna Firestorm said:i guess thx 4 the comment. 1st of all sry 4 posting profanity but thts my way of venting. 2nd i tried posting this as my blog but idk wat happened. 3rd i am an intelligent person n i do no how 2 spell correctly i dont needa go back 2 school. n i didnt think me typing this way was a problem considering im not writing a letter im on a computer. u have no idea wat im going thru but thank u 4 making me feel insulted cuz now i feel more like s***
Synister Witch said:What you need evidently is a couple of things pointed out to you, so let me help you out a bit.
As a mod I will point out two things:
1) We don't use profanity in our forum posts.
2) We don't discuss drug use and in your case alcohol consumption seeing as you are still a few years shy of the legal age limit.
As a person I will point out a few more:
1) This would be better suited as a blog post instead of a forum discussion
2) The constant use of text speak is both annoysome as it is tiresome. I am sure you went to school at some point, it really wouldn't hurt to apply some of what you learned. When wanting help from others it helps to come across as at least semi intelligent to begin with.
3) You are 18, it's time to start learning how to grow up and put your big girl panties on. Translation being, you are becoming an adult, life gets harder as time goes on, not easier. You are going to have to learn to take the punches as the come, we have all been there and made it to the other side. Turning to alcohol and drugs is not the answer, if you can't handle things now I truly feel sorry for you in the next few years when you become completely independent and are forced to handle things all on your own.
4) If you are stressed, take a step back from the so called bs around you, take a deep breathe and calm down. Take a walk, take a nap, read a book....take some you time. Step away from the situation then come back to it, things will seem much less dramatic than it seems at this moment.
Good luck with life.
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Permalink Reply by Luna Firestorm on
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fine
Synister Witch said:Venting is fine but it needs to be within the rules of site and as for your typing...I never said you needed to go back to school, I said you should utilize the schooling you already have received. It's not about writing a letter it's about making things legible and articulate enough that people can actually read and make sense of what is being posted. Many members will simply overlook posts if it takes 20 minutes just to decipher the first two sentences. You are right, I don't know what you have gone through, but I do know what we all go through and at the end of the day it's called Life. You really have no other choice but to suck it up and deal with it hun. Which is why I said that if you are that stressed out, take a break, take a breather then come back and attack the problem with a clear head.
Luna Firestorm said:i guess thx 4 the comment. 1st of all sry 4 posting profanity but thts my way of venting. 2nd i tried posting this as my blog but idk wat happened. 3rd i am an intelligent person n i do no how 2 spell correctly i dont needa go back 2 school. n i didnt think me typing this way was a problem considering im not writing a letter im on a computer. u have no idea wat im going thru but thank u 4 making me feel insulted cuz now i feel more like s***
Synister Witch said:What you need evidently is a couple of things pointed out to you, so let me help you out a bit.
As a mod I will point out two things:
1) We don't use profanity in our forum posts.
2) We don't discuss drug use and in your case alcohol consumption seeing as you are still a few years shy of the legal age limit.
As a person I will point out a few more:
1) This would be better suited as a blog post instead of a forum discussion
2) The constant use of text speak is both annoysome as it is tiresome. I am sure you went to school at some point, it really wouldn't hurt to apply some of what you learned. When wanting help from others it helps to come across as at least semi intelligent to begin with.
3) You are 18, it's time to start learning how to grow up and put your big girl panties on. Translation being, you are becoming an adult, life gets harder as time goes on, not easier. You are going to have to learn to take the punches as the come, we have all been there and made it to the other side. Turning to alcohol and drugs is not the answer, if you can't handle things now I truly feel sorry for you in the next few years when you become completely independent and are forced to handle things all on your own.
4) If you are stressed, take a step back from the so called bs around you, take a deep breathe and calm down. Take a walk, take a nap, read a book....take some you time. Step away from the situation then come back to it, things will seem much less dramatic than it seems at this moment.
Good luck with life.
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Permalink Reply by BelleMorte on
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Di, sometimes I just love you hun.
Di said:Thank goodness I always feel mean when I point out I cant understand the question due to the grammer, some of you young ones have to understand we are not all young on this forum and your graffiti that passes for syntax is indecipherable.
Synister Witch said:What you need evidently is a couple of things pointed out to you, so let me help you out a bit.
As a mod I will point out two things:
1) We don't use profanity in our forum posts.
2) We don't discuss drug use and in your case alcohol consumption seeing as you are still a few years shy of the legal age limit.
As a person I will point out a few more:
1) This would be better suited as a blog post instead of a forum discussion
2) The constant use of text speak is both annoysome as it is tiresome. I am sure you went to school at some point, it really wouldn't hurt to apply some of what you learned. When wanting help from others it helps to come across as at least semi intelligent to begin with.
3) You are 18, it's time to start learning how to grow up and put your big girl panties on. Translation being, you are becoming an adult, life gets harder as time goes on, not easier. You are going to have to learn to take the punches as the come, we have all been there and made it to the other side. Turning to alcohol and drugs is not the answer, if you can't handle things now I truly feel sorry for you in the next few years when you become completely independent and are forced to handle things all on your own.
4) If you are stressed, take a step back from the so called bs around you, take a deep breathe and calm down. Take a walk, take a nap, read a book....take some you time. Step away from the situation then come back to it, things will seem much less dramatic than it seems at this moment.
Good luck with life.
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