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Yep, You can't get through to 'em. He will just have to learn the hard way when he falls flat on his derrière.
Blessings to you Alorer;)
And I do hope that one day John, you finally grow up.
This whole reply explains soooooo much...
I think that you have just shown everyone here your level of immaturity.
Alorer is possibly one of the most decent individuals on this site not to mention one of the most mature. But it is not for me to speak for him.
I certainly do not think I am right all the time. But I like to question ignorance when I see it, which…
Actually the "R word" does have to do with mental health and birth issues. according to the dictionary it is an offensive term used to describe those that are mentally and/or physically handicapped.
In the right context it can be the correct word f…
Now it is my turn to *applaud*
Why thank you:)
PEOPLE. ARE. SENSITIVE.TO. THAT.WORD.AND. YOU.DID.CALL.PEOPLE.RETARDED. read your own post carefully.
Why? because:
1. We are not all mentally handicapped as you say.
2. There are people on here, as Alorer said that have family members who are both…
1. I am not the only one who feels this way.
2. using the word "retarded" is ignorant.
3. you called all gods of different cultures the same :
"The Greeks wrote down their's, the Egyptians, the Irish, Scottish, English, Native American, Indian, No…
All of the rituals I do are spontaneous. I look at the books for guidelines but my rituals are guided by intuition. some of them are long, some are short but all of them are simple and do not require learning things by rote. Also I do not celebrate…
People will often say that their lives are wonderful because they became a Witch, or Wiccan, they are happy all the time and have no problems. Either they are lying and hiding the true pain they have, or they are just one of these people that I woul…
P.S. even though I do not wish to pretend I know why you put up this discussion, it would seem by the way that you worded the whole thing including the post's title was to incite argument and possibly drama as well... but this is just my opinion.
Does the Divine as you refer to it even exist? Does the Divine that you refer to want us all to be the same? like sheep all believing in the same thing despite our cultural difference? Must we all be robotic believers in this one Divine being? What…
I do not believe in guardian angels. if I had one I would not have hurt myself so much I have broken too many bones and been too clumsy for me to believe in such things. I make my own decisions most of the time, no guardian angel is telling me this…
I am good at Tarot. I also make brooms, grow plants, paint esoteric and occult themed art and paint spell boxes or boxes that can be used to store witchy items, put together spell kits, make charm bags and dreamcatchers. I am empathic mostly with an…
I am a feminist. There I said the so dreaded word that a lot of people are so up-in-arms about.
I am not radical, nor is any feminist I know and almost all of my female colleagues and friends are feminists.
We are not man-bashing, bra burning, seper…
Profile Information
- Hometown:
- Boksburg
- Relationship Status:
- In a Relationship
- Path or Tradition:
- Eclectic Gothic Witch. I am a solitary and wouldn't consider myself a wiccan because i don't believe in a few of the religious perspectives that Wiccans practise. But i have studied Wicca and continue to do so.
- About Me:
- I am a university student, finding it hard to meet other witches. I study fine art and write morbid poetry but i am not always dark.I love animals and I am a vegetarian. My boyfriend is amazing the most understanding person I have ever met.
- Favorite Books:
- anne rice novels
terry pratchet novels
harry potter series
marian keyes novels
Twilight Saga
- Favorite Movies:
- Interview with a vampire
Queen of the damned
Practical magic
Nightmare before christmas
Underworld series
The life of David gale
Matchpoint
Closer
Moulin rouge
Meet joe black
The devils advocate
So so many
- Favorite Bands:
- Marilyn Manson
Slipknot
50 Cent
Eminem
Tupac
Metallica
Korn
Nightshade
1.Harm none intentionally
2.Everything strives to create balance,sometimes the fox catches the hare, sometimes the hare gets away
3.Energy can’t be destroyed or created only transformed
4.We all belong to an intricate web that unites us all ( ecosystem/the cosmos)
5.Karma (every action has an opposite and equal reaction)
6.Macrocosm equals microcosm (as above so below)
7.Evolution is inevitable (strive for self knowledge and inner peace as learning is the only way to spiritually and mentally evolve)
8.You can’t be adept at everything (the spider cant learn to fly before its grown wings so develop techniques and perfect them)
9.Never lose ability to play (lioness with her cubs, dogs, cats etc.)
10.Shed outworn skin to make way for the new (spiders snakes, winter fur)
11.Study nature and apply her secrets to magic if relevant
12.Spells may be cast for any needs and wants so long as they aren’t illegal or intentionally harmful
13.All creatures, from the smallest ant to the largest whale, deserve respect
These are my personal rules, that I have applied to my craft. :)
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This site and the politics...
I have been a member of this community for 2 months now, but I am considering the possibility of leaving.
I have learned alot from the people on this site, and have come across some lovely people, who I would like to call my friends.
I hope I have contributed something to this site, if even it was only a tiny something.
But it has come to my attention that there is so much political nonsense going on which I have no understanding of and little interest in.
I am all for debate and argument but i… Continue
I have learned alot from the people on this site, and have come across some lovely people, who I would like to call my friends.
I hope I have contributed something to this site, if even it was only a tiny something.
But it has come to my attention that there is so much political nonsense going on which I have no understanding of and little interest in.
I am all for debate and argument but i… Continue
Posted on June 29, 2009 at 8:22am — 4 Comments
my photos/art
hey everyone, i put some photos on my page with my art, feel free to look at it and comment!!
Blessings to all!!
Blessings to all!!
Posted on May 27, 2009 at 12:22pm —
cant i just be angry or upset sometimes
i'm tired of being expected to be happy or calm all the time, i get told to stop crying when i break down for the first time in a month, i get told i moan too much when one damn day out of the week i just get so frustrated that i cant stop maoning and being angry. i put on a mask of happpiness at varsity and i have to stay that way when i get home. can't i just vent once in a while so that i don't crack open in public.my life is a pressure cooker at this point in time and i'm trying to cope as w… Continue
Posted on April 27, 2009 at 7:42am — 1 Comment
Its my birthday
its my birthday and i have already stuffed myself with sweet, delicious, bad for your hips thing, and oooh it was amazing.
i wish everyone a wonderful day, may it be filled with magic and happiness!!!
i wish everyone a wonderful day, may it be filled with magic and happiness!!!
Posted on April 22, 2009 at 5:02am —
Comment Wall (47 comments)
- At 8:45am on March 7, 2010,
The Night Dweller said… - I'll have to check out your website when I'm not on a controlled computer, how have you been?
I'm glad to see you decided to stay in the community, though I hear it's being sold? I have been away going through alot of difficulties here. I hope you have been well, I look forward to seeing your site.
Take care!
- At 2:19pm on February 19, 2010,
Nightshade said…
- I have had the wonderful joy of being able to launch a website with the help of an expert web designer Jonathan Steyn, and my friend Chante.
Everybody please feel free to visit my site at www.esotericreflections.co.za and let me know what you think.
Many Blessings to Everybody
Nightshade
- At 5:14pm on January 6, 2010,
cruelty said… - greetings ty for the add sorry or the delay im not on as much as i used to be. hope your holiday went well
- At 7:40pm on December 31, 2009,
Billy grey mist said… - Your New Year has proably already started so I send Blessings and Hugs
- At 4:42pm on December 22, 2009,
Nightshade said…
- I do not attack anyone psychically or physically unless they truly do warrant that attack and often times there are better ways of dealing with them, so it is good to see that people understand this. I also do not post things to simply get an emotional response- that would be creating drama and I’d much rather be watching it on the telly than taking part in it on the net. I have enough drama in my own life.
Rather All I want is to understand how certain people justify their actions and accuse others of casting “love spells” upon them because of their own lusts.
BTW mentioning that you have a foot fetish is a rather sexual thing to say for someone who accuses me of that.
Also any pagan worth their weight in salt, could easily deflect a spell like a lust spell being used against them. So using that as an excuse for lusting over a woman almost three times younger than oneself is not valid, especially if your guides work to protect you against it.
I don’t like dirty old men who pose as pagan in order to fulfil their sexual desires. It angers me, why? Because I am a young woman and I work to stop sexual exploitation.
I am at times facetious and sarcastic, that is my nature. I am not often like that over the internet though because I prefer people to see my face, painted with sarcasm and humour rather than imagining it as ignorant.
I believe that what I post on this website is helpful to some, if not many. I am, however not arrogant, and I do believe that I learn much from everyone on here too. I, for the most part, make sure that what I post is accurate, when I’m not sure I state that I may be incorrect.
I do not wish to cause problems on this site, but when I see “bad apples” I cannot keep my mouth shut, or my fingers tied up in this case.
This is posted here because I do not wish to create drama.
Blessings
Nightshade
- At 4:41pm on December 22, 2009,
Nightshade said…
- Some people it would seem like to project certain things upon others , when it is clear that it is the projectors own fears of these qualities that causes them to do so.
I will not dispute that I am a sexual person, but I disagree with “everything” being about sex with me, quite frankly to me sex is something best left to be discussed either privately or rationally.
Freud was a sex obsessed psychoanalyst who claimed that almost everything related to sex, like teeth, arrows, any phallic shape, anything to do with the opposite sex.
In dreams bows and arrows are not “Horny” dreams, A “horny” dream is a sex dream where one is apt to find themselves feeling aroused when they awakened from said dream. Interpreting a dream of bow and arrow in such a way is rather ignorant of the particular persons circumstances, background etc.
Lust is a physical, most often sexual desire for someone or something. Lust spells are used to evoke those feelings.
Love is a feeling of deep spiritual connection, adoration, affection and deep seated caring, there are many types of love including parental, platonic and romantic love. Romantic love often has sexual desire within it but the sexual desire is not the loveless lust that happens during one night stands etc. Love spells are used to push or nudge someone toward you in that capacity, they are used to bring your rhythms in harmony to find love and sometimes they are used to coerce someone into loving you- love cannot be created like this however.
Wiccan ceremonies do not have orgies within them. Dianic witches don’t often have a male within the ritual, and they usually aren’t looking to consummate with the horned god- at least not physically.
- At 6:39am on December 21, 2009, OKACHA DA-SHAY gave Nightshade a gift…
- At 1:42pm on December 9, 2009,
The Night Dweller said…
- You do me to much honor!
Thank you or your kindness in return. If you ever wish to talk, or have any questions, feel free to ask anything.
Merry Yule!
- At 12:30pm on November 2, 2009,
blair said… 
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- At 11:52am on November 2, 2009,
blair said…
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